Paula Filiatreau worked her way into my marriage when my husband and I were having a bad day. He apparently fell for her stupidity and I no longer mattered and I am not sure how long it had been happening. They have worked together for years, and he was just looking for someone to listen. Not crawl into his head. She knew he was married, and living at home, with his wife, and 2 kids. She messaged our daughter trying to explain how great of a man her father was, but could not explain how or why she felt this way.