20 year old child met my 40 year old husband at work and started a relationship with him (after she broke it off with the other married guy she was seeing).
When discovered, I asked her to please back off for awhile so we could figure out our marriage. She didn’t. So we tried to figure it out with her involved anyway. Then my kids found out. Teens.
Again I asked her to leave us alone, she was causing too much pain and my husband clearly was still living at home and to please just go away until we figured it out and he either stays or leaves. She didn’t. Why? Because it’s “love” I guess it’s okay to destroy families if you’re in love.