Happily married 11 years in spring of 2014. My husband out of nowhere starts acting weird. Talked to him constantly as he worked out of state. One day wakes up in a ***** ty mood says I want a divorce& ***** ip; ummm ok, I thought he was joking. Not in the least. It got bad, I cried, and our 2 girls watched me fall apart. I begged for a reason, begged for him to come home& ***** ip; nothing. 2 weeks in I am a complete wreck. I drive to Oklahoma and he meets me. We talk, he just says he needs time to think, he loves me, blah blah! Of course while I’m there I go through EVERYTHING.